Actualize Your Unique Goals For A Life Filled With Happiness And Success by Mark Victor Hansen

When people say things like: "The ocean is beautiful" or "There's nothing more breathtaking than a sunset" do you ever find yourself robotically agreeing with them without consciously thinking about their statements?

This is a common practice. What if, when you really think about it, you discover you prefer mountain peaks to ocean views, or would rather watch the sun rise than set?

Your opinions are your own– they belong to you. Never allow others to tell you what you think, who you are or what you should be doing with your life.

Some parents and families nurture children well. But in the process they instill in those same children certain expectations that stem from their own unfulfilled desires.

How many adults do you know became a doctor or a lawyer because their parents wanted them to? Did a friend of yours go into their family's business because it was also expected of them?

If you have a burning desire to be what your parents, family and friends want you to be, that's one thing. But if your true passion has nothing to do with medical school or the family business then it is your responsibility to follow your heart. Is this being selfish? Absolutely – but it is your duty to accomplish your mission on earth.

Are people going to be upset that you're not doing what they want you to do? Sure they will – but do not be swayed by those who do not have the courage to follow their own dreams.

You're not responsible for the happiness of anyone but yourself. You were put here for a reason. Do the work you were born to do.

What's exciting about using our mind is that we can short circuit all the excuses thrown up by our fears.

Mark Victor Hansen
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Mark Victor Hansen - Co-Author of the Chicken Soup For The Soul series of books. For over 25 years, Mark Victor Hansen has focused solely on helping people in all walks of life reshape their personal vision of what's possible for themselves. Visit MarkVictorHansen.com for resources, secure shopping and web-only product specials, speaking schedule and current projects. Mark is also the co-author of "The One Minute Millionaire" book.